No hope?

img_6371-hopeI’ve been listening (perhaps I shouldn’t) to spokepersons on television news stations repeat words spoken by some in authority that our nation is now “without hope.” Are these wise words? Naturally I disagree with them. After all, my post address is “Hope Is Possible.” As most of you know, I am not referring to national hope, but hope after suicide; hope for those surviving suicide, which includes hope for all who grieve. Therefore it’s no stretch to be inclusive and say that there is hope for the whole world, right?

You may agree with political mindsets who feel we are “without hope” in our nation going forward from the swearing in ceremony on January 20. The statement gave me pause nevertheless, but this is not intended to be a political piece. I won’t air my opinions, however the words got me thinking.

“We are without hope.” How does a statement like this make you feel in your grief? It doesn’t have a question mark, but a period. Is it truth? Does it apply? To be “without hope” is to be hopeless, right? Personally I am not hopeless, but my firstborn likely felt he was, causing him to end his pain by taking his life. Suicide is the prevalent next step to hopelessness. I dare say that if we, as a nation, think negatively and feel hopeless, what is the logical next step, or is there one?

Readers who have been following my blog know that I write to help other grievers feel hopeful. Yes, life is hard after loss. There is no argument there. I have it hard, you have it hard, but I do not live without hope. You don’t either, do you? We may be shattered, bone dry, sickened with grief, and feel broken beyond repair, but we are not without hope. Keep reading the devotional below for someone else’s take on this topic.

~ Hope springs eternal in the human breast ~

“The English poet Alexander Pope wrote, ‘Hope springs eternal in the human breast: Man never is, but always to be blest.’

“The director of a medical clinic told of a terminally ill young man who came in for his usual treatment. A new doctor who was on duty said to him casually and cruelly, ‘You know, don’t you, that you won’t live out the year?’

“As the young man left, he stopped by the director’s desk and wept. ‘That man took away my hope,’ he blurted out.

“‘I guess he did,’ replied the director. ‘Maybe it’s time to find a new one.’

“Commenting on this incident, Lewis Smedes wrote, ‘Is there a hope when hope is taken away? Is there hope when the situation is hopeless? That question leads us to Christian hope, for in the Bible, hope is no longer a passion for the possible. It becomes a passion for the promise.’”

No one, not even a professional, can know whether or not that young man will live out the year. That information is known only to the God of heaven. It is also true that no one can tell you that you live without hope. You can choose to believe that you have no hope or that you will never feel joy again in your grief journey, but is it truth?

I will not answer this question for you, but I will answer it for me. If I did not have hope ~ hope in the next life, hope that I will see my child again ~ I would be someone most miserable (1 Corinthians 15:19). Further, I dare say, that I, (and speaking for no one else), do not see how I could survive my son’s suicide without hope . . . hope in the Eternal.

There are hundreds of verses of Scripture with the word “hope” in them. Not all of them are positive, but discerning reading gives me confidence in the hope to come. You may choose to believe otherwise, but I believe that the hope, referred to in Scripture, is the good stuff which is ahead for those who put their trust in God; therefore I choose to rise every day in the hope of being reunited with my firstborn son once more!

Is not your reverence your confidence? And the integrity of your ways your hope? Job 4:6

Quote from Our Daily Bread, December 19, 1996, (Bible “dot” org)

Verse from Job, New King James Version (NKJV)

 

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4 thoughts on “No hope?

    • Thank you for sharing those words, Celia. I’m human and without feedback, I don’t know if others are gaining from what I write. It has been my goal to touch people where I hurt and to share hope in what’s to come as I believe. I will keep writing as long as God gives me the words, after all, I am only His scribe. I personally get healing benefit from my blog which has been going on for 5 years now. Pick through the archives for other pieces which may also encourage you. By all means, don’t be a stranger. Your friend, Gracie

  1. Thank you!!!!!! Amen to all you said! I’m so grateful that I share your hope–in The One who has our sons in His very capable Hands. ❤ xoxo

    • You are welcome, Nancy. Together we have hope in the risen Lord! Each day spent is one day closer to being reunited once again! Please write again and thank you for your words. It’s good to be reminded that we are not alone. ~Gracie

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